{"id":44,"date":"2021-03-08T18:07:52","date_gmt":"2021-03-08T18:07:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dasas-mccook.org\/?page_id=44"},"modified":"2026-01-14T11:18:07","modified_gmt":"2026-01-14T17:18:07","slug":"domestic-violence","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/dasas-mccook.org\/index.php\/domestic-violence\/","title":{"rendered":"Domestic Violence"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text alignwide has-media-on-the-right is-stacked-on-mobile\"><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<p class=\"has-normal-font-size\">Domestic Violence (also called intimate partner violence\/abuse) is a pattern of violent and coercive behaviors used to establish power and control over an intimate partner through fear and intimidation.<\/p>\n<\/div><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"510\" src=\"https:\/\/dasas-mccook.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/domestic_violence6_1-1.jpg\" alt=\"Image of a man with fist and a woman cowering in the corner\" class=\"wp-image-456 size-full\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dasas-mccook.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/domestic_violence6_1-1.jpg 768w, https:\/\/dasas-mccook.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/domestic_violence6_1-1-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/dasas-mccook.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/domestic_violence6_1-1-205x136.jpg 205w, https:\/\/dasas-mccook.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/domestic_violence6_1-1-272x182.jpg 272w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>The abuse may be physical, emotional, sexual, economic, or spiritual.&nbsp; Domestic violence is a serious problem and can occur in any relationship.&nbsp; An individual&#8217;s size, strength, politics or personality does not determine whether he or she can be abused or be an abuser.&nbsp; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text alignwide is-stacked-on-mobile\" style=\"grid-template-columns:41% auto\"><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"224\" height=\"224\" src=\"https:\/\/dasas-mccook.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/maleheadinhands.jpg\" alt=\"Image of  a man with his hands on his head looking down\" class=\"wp-image-457 size-full\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dasas-mccook.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/maleheadinhands.jpg 224w, https:\/\/dasas-mccook.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/maleheadinhands-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/dasas-mccook.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/maleheadinhands-205x205.jpg 205w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 224px) 100vw, 224px\" \/><\/figure><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<p class=\"has-large-font-size\">Domestic violence does not discriminate. It happens in both heterosexual and same-sex relationship<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>It can happen regardless of&nbsp;one&#8217;s age, sex, race, ethnicity, religious or cultural beliefs, sexual orientation, education, and socio-economic status. The bottom line is that abusive behavior is never acceptable, whether it\u2019s coming from a man, a woman, a teenager, or an older adult. You deserve to feel valued, respected, and safe.&nbsp; You do not deserve to be abused, nor are you responsible for the abuse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Computers, tablets and smartphones can easily be monitored and is impossible to completely clear. If you are afraid your devices are being monitored, visit <a href=\"https:\/\/www.techsafety.org\/resources-survivors\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.techsafety.org\/resources-survivors\">techsafety.org<\/a> on a safe computer for more detailed information.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The following are examples of a person&#8217;s behavior or personality that may be a warning that a person may be abusive. If you answer yes to one or more of these questions, you may be in an abusive relationship or be at risk for it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Does your partner tease you in a hurtful way in private or in public?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Does your partner call you names such as &#8220;stupid&#8221; or &#8220;bitch&#8221;?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Does your partner act jealous of your friends, family, or co-workers?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Does your partner get angry about clothes you wear or how you style your hair?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Does your partner check-up on you by calling, driving by, or getting someone else to?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Has your partner gone places with you or sent someone just to &#8220;keep an eye on you&#8221;?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Does your partner insist on knowing who you talk with on the phone?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Does your partner blame you for his problems or his bad mood?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Does your partner get angry so easily that you feel like you&#8217;re &#8220;walking on eggshells&#8221;?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Does your partner hit walls, drive dangerously, or do other things to scare you?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Does your partner often drink or use drugs?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Does your partner insist that you drink or use drugs with him?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Have you lost friends or no longer see some of your family because of your partner?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Does your partner accuse you of being interested in someone else?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Does your partner read your mail, go through your purse, or other personal papers?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Does your partner keep money from you, keep you in debt, or have &#8220;money secrets?&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Has your partner kept you from getting a job, or caused you to lose a job?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Has your partner sold your car, made you give up your license, or not repaired your car?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Does your partner threaten to hurt you, your children, family, friends, or pets?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Does your partner force you to have sex when you do not want to?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Does your partner force you to have sex in ways that you do not want to?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Does your partner threaten to kill you or himself if you leave?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Is your partner like &#8220;Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde,&#8221; acting one way in front of other people and another way when you are alone?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-layout-flex wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link has-headings-background-color has-background wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/dasas-mccook.org\/index.php\/domestic-violence\/types-of-abuse\/\">Types of Abuse<\/a><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-button\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link has-headings-background-color has-background wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/dasas-mccook.org\/index.php\/domestic-violence\/safety-planning\/\">Safety Planning<\/a><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-button\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link has-headings-background-color has-background wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/dasas-mccook.org\/index.php\/domestic-violence\/how-you-can-help\/\">How You Can Help<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Domestic Violence (also called intimate partner violence\/abuse) is a pattern of violent and coercive behaviors used to establish power and control over an intimate partner through fear and intimidation. 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